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Sumtyms is good to be alone, sumtyms is not. Faith my dear faith is the key, keep on praying and God will give you a light. God will never forsake you... Remember your family loves you. We love you a lot, You are my family. Hey l once went for 5 yrs without a partner and there was nothing wrong with me bcz l knew that one day l will have sum1.

Hope, faith and trust don't let go of them.
You'll find love or love will find you.

Thanx for everyone's input in this. Lol Zedera! I know happiness doesn't come from anyone but yourself. I guess I'm more afraid of the loneliness than anything else. Maybe it is time I do things on my own for a change and rediscover who I really am and what I like in life. It's just not worth it to let your whole life pass without having the right answers right?

hmmmm, tough one, and dont get me wrong here, cos I sure aint no psychologist or anything, but there seems to be a pattern in what is happening with you.
From my own personal experience - there is NOT that 1 guy or girl that is going to make you happy for the rest of your life.
To answer your q, sure there will be some "handsome prince" to sweep you off your feet, but over time the same old same old is going to keep happening until you address whatever issue it is that seems to keep popping up in your life, and forcing your hand to leave a marriage.
By no means is it a easy thing to accomplish, but sooner or later you are going to have to do the whole long hard look in the mirror thing, and realize that finding that love is not going to make you happy - infact nothing in this world can make you happy until your secure in the knowledge that happiness is a stoopid term we as human use, and is always going to let you down sooner or later.
If I was you I would start with my self and say right, what do I need to be full filled in my life, and how do I go about making those changes.
When all is said and done, its all on you girl, only you can know what you need to do, and put things in place to live your life. Once that happens men will be flocking to be with you (regardless of how many kids you have, or what your outward appearance may be) cos what you have to offer nobody can ever take away from you.
I hope this makes some sense.
that'll be R450 please : D

hey, well, im just a kid but i think if u try and cut honesty within the equation. maybe you would be surprised ... im sure there are some guys who would be in heaven to have 5 lil devils ;) ... mwah, im sure ull find a way babe .

I come from a small village and where I come from there's never too much buggage especially when it comes to kids...my grandfather (bless his soul), also told me that when you give yourself enough time to heal and get over your past on your own, with enough support structure love will find its way to your heart...don't worry it will happen in its time God will never forsake you...