Blogs

W e sometimes find it hard and impossible to let go of our fears and past hurts.We keep on holding to someone whom u never pass his/her mind in any single day but one will keep on embrassing the love that faded months or years ago.Good love keeps on coming their way but one is unable to see it or is able to see it but s/he blinds away to admit that love has a second chance and can feel as good and real as before.It is in this situations or circumstances that other people tend to have given up and not believing in true love again not wanting to listen to any love song cause of they tend to believe that love has become an ELLUSION to them.I for myself i am included in this piece of writing.I have been deeply hurt and up to this very ssam emoment ,i fail to believe that true love is possible,i fail to invest and return love to my partner as i have already painted him that one one day or the other his gonna hurt me so i have to be alert that when the day comes ,my heart wont bleed as before cause i know how weakening it is to have a broken heart.

i know that thing did not turn out they way i have expected to be but some where some how i have learned to let go but i fail to understand why my heart is kinda holding on to this particular person whereas i know that though may heart may still love him but i dont wanna be with him.I end up consoling myself that maybe its because i have not yet found the ideal person for me that whom i love completely.I do go out and date people but ths is where i have to be very carefull to certain things such as sexual activities because i sure dont wanna do mistakes that will be full of life time regrets and find myself trapped in a plastic bag unable to breath.

a friend of mine is going throught the very situation im in and i am able to advice her and see the realities of letting go and healing your self but fail to understand if the advice m giving her do i even apply myself?LOVE TAKES TIME TO HEAL WHEN YOU BROKEN INSIDE"yes it does i have and it is only through these flaws i have to lean that I HAVE TO LET GO AND NEVER BE ASHAMED OR BLAME YOURSELF THAT YOUR RELATIONSHIP HAS FAILED.