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What Women Look For In A Man

Men seem to have it all wrong. They have no idea what qualities we are looking for in a man. I think they try and market themselves completely different than what we need or want. Yeah of course we want good looks. That’s goes without saying but we’re not as interested in things like looks and money as you all think we are. So stop trying to impress us with all of your materialistic possessions and listen up. These are the qualities we really want.

Honesty- This is one of the most important characteristics to have. We don’t want to waist our time wondering if you’re cheating on us. And we want you to be clear on your interest in us. We don’t want to play games.

Intelligence- We like men to be intelligent. If you’re not able to hold a decent conversation, than you’re not worth our time. It doesn’t matter if you have a college degree or not. We like our men to be able to debate topics and be well spoken. There’s something very sexy about a man who’s really smart.

Hard working and goal oriented- Who doesn’t like a person that’s hard working? A man that is lazy is not one I’d like to date. I enjoy a man who enjoys his job and has goals and a vision for his career path. It’s okay if you’re not where you’d like to be in your career as long as you are working toward a goal. A man that places importance on his job and his future always gets my attention. A big turn-off is a man who has trouble holding down a job. That signals a red flag for me.
Sense Of Humor- Some of the best relationships I had were with men who were funny. I love dating a guy who knows how to make me laugh. Life can be so serious at times. It’s great to be able to let loose and laugh a bit. This characteristic comes in handy when you’re going through a rough time. There have been many occasions that laughter has picked my mood up during hard times.

Reliability- We like to be able to count on our man at all times. We need to feel that you will be there for us even when we go through troubled times.
Shared Values- Some say that opposites attract. However, in my opinion that can’t be further from the truth. Women like men who share the same ideas and values. We like our men to have the same thoughts as us on politics, religion, having babies, etc…Without sharing the same vision, it’s not worth engaging in a long standing relationship.

So to that certain somebody YOU know who you are - just to set the reckord straight go on and try those faulty ass lines on some sweet 16year old school girl...Your ego is obviously to big for me to fit in!!

Relationships is about
GIVING EACH OTHER PLEASURE
CREATE MUTUALLY SATISFYING LOVE AND FRIENDSHIP RITUALS
CREATE A SAFE PLACE TO DISCUSS ISSUES OPENLY AND HONESTLY
USE GOOD COMMUNICATION SKILLS TO RESOLVE HOT ISSUES
INFUSE YOUR LIVES WITH SHARED MEANING

Obviously something your sorry ass know's nothing about!
Hope I made myself clear and you will be so kind to leave me the hell alone!!


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  • You guys are blowing this way out of per portion
    shireetjie - Posted 48 months ago
  • I hear lot of things said here about us are quiet true, but what do you call a situation where we are now datig and I do have money of couse saved for the lady that I love( meaning dating). To my understanding as a xhosa man a man has to look after her lady ,I must take you out ,buy you presents etc why? because I dont want you at the end of the day chasing after males that claims they can do all the thingz your man wont do and that we dont call it showing off with the flashy thingz I have its showing you how much I love and then it now becomes a problem to lot of some women ,they think that you are probably doing the same every where you go.
    longos - Posted 48 months ago
  • u r rite on ur side, bt wat l knw is dat, l woman would her man 2 b a chef, gardener, doctor, cleana, driver, pilot, smart, reliable, intelligent, handsome, security, all of this things, but she wil end cheating on you with a lazy dirty bastard who dnt even work
    ngoako.frederick - Posted 48 months ago
  • Yes we are from a another planet and I guess that's why John Gray published the book Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus .......
    shireetjie - Posted 48 months ago
  • and women are from another planet ? the things you look for in a man are selfish. All have sinned against their maker and all will answer to Him.
    simonsez - Posted 48 months ago
  • As i stated all men are not the same and as you can see this was directed to a specific somebody......I def do agree with you It does work both ways 50/50 and I did add my opinion what I think relationships should be based on......thanx for the comment:)
    shireetjie - Posted 48 months ago
  • its kinda general 2 think men r dogs, users etc...but in reality it go both ways...its all dependent on the individual..man or woman...they can be the best of people or the worst....my theory is treat me as I want to be treated and I will treat you the same....
    kearns - Posted 48 months ago
  • Let just make it clear not "all" men are the same...there are some genuine guys out there!
    shireetjie - Posted 48 months ago
  • Oh big ups gal.thts wat mans nid 2 knw.i wish 2 hold ur hand 4 these wondrful worlds
    NOSI902 - Posted 48 months ago

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