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HELP!!!! I don't know what to do, what to say, how to feel...Guess I just need advice and guidance.

We been together since December but they shagged in September (way before we even started dating) He never knew because she only told him about it 2 days ago, so its not like he kept if from me and besides the first person he told when he found out was me. Not his mom or his best friend...ME!!! I love him and he loves me and we want to be together but he says we cant because he has to do whats right for his kid. He doesn't want him growing up in a broken home like he and I did. I agree with that 100% but why cant he be with me and still be a good father? She doesn't want to be with him, she already said she doesn't expect anything, she just wanted him to know she's pregnant. So isn't that his answer right there? How can he just reject me for the hope that she "might" wanna be with him. I mean you cant force someone to be with you if they don't want to and if he still loves me then why is he doing this? Its hard to love someone when your heart belongs to someone else. It wont be fair on her or the kid...I mean rather from a broken home than in one, right?

It was a shock at first but I accepted the fact that he is going to be a dad because its apart of him and I will love him unconditionally. I know he will always be tied to the mother and I have no problem with that. I, do however have a problem with the fact that he's so quick to throw everything we have away but then in the same breath tells me he loves me and wants to be with me and misses me and this is so hard and and and!
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